Blog For Stepmums From The Step in Mum

I wrote my fist blog for stemums in February 2019. I wanted to share my journey of being a stepmum and second wife. As a result of being tired of writing I launched the very first UK podcast for stepmums and blended families – The Step in Mum.

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My husband and I had to grow, step up, give up and let go a lot. Things are not always perfect or great but we work on ourselves and our relationship every day. Stepparenting is hard but it doesn’t need to be difficult.

Blended Family and Finances

Being a stepparent shouldn't cost you your life savings! We give so much power and meanings to money but we also have the right to change our money game. email me: hello@veronikadurham.com IG https://www.instagram.com/step.in.mum/ FB...

Stop looking for closure

We don't need a closure from someone else, we need to get the closure within ourselves! In the past I believed I have to get one in order to move on, to forget and forgive. In this episode I share why I think the need for closure could be very hurtful and most of the...

Envy, Guilt, and Judgement 

Each of these deserves its own episode but in this one, I'm explaining how these are linked and work together. I'm using examples from my motherhood, step mum jorney, doing TikTok videos, and recording my podcast/youtube. IG https://www.instagram.com/step.in.mum/ FB...

Breaking up with a friend

it can be more difficult than breaking up with a partner, not many people talk about breaking up with their friends. I've been on both sides and none of them are easy. In this episode, I share more about breaking up with a friend, trying to get closer, and much more....

Resentment in a happy marriage

You don't need a life-changing problem to feel resentful. In this episode, I'm sharing how I process resentment and use a recent 'incident' to explain it. I hope you like giraffes 🙂 IG https://www.instagram.com/step.in.mum/ FB https://www.facebook.com/step.in.mum/...

Go to Bed Angry – Argue Better ep 1

Argue and communicate better series is here! in each episode of this series, I'll talk about relationship advice we get and hear, why they don't work, and what communication tool I would use. Never going to bed angry is BS! Listen to why I think that and what tool I...

Why me?

My coaching is a mix of personal experience, training and research. I’m honest and you won’t get any fake ‘falala’ BS from me and I won’t take any from you.

I won’t sugar-coat anything but I’m compassionate and friendly.

Bringing a fresh air, lightness and a bit of humour to our session. So don’t expect stuffy and boring sessions. 

I’ve been there! My journey of a second wife and stepmum taught me a lot but you can find out more about it HERE

I teach my clients empathy, accountability and emotional intelligence through genuine human connections. 

 How it works?  

 

Book a 60-minute Complimentary Session: We’ll explore the issues you would like to deal with or where do you need support. My promise to you it’s that you’ll walk away with a breakthrough from this session. Book HERE.

I work with most of my clients over the phone and video calls. You can have your session in pyjamas, during your lunch break or even in a quiet coffee shop if you need to hide from your partner or family (yes, I had many session with my clients being in a coffee shop). 

Packages & Prices: You can choose from a range of packages ranging from 1-3 hours to packages that offer continual support for 3 to 12 months.  Prices start from £50. 

Invite Your Partner: you can invite our partner for one session for no extra charge otherwise or you can simply upgrade yours. 

Support In Between: you’re welcome to call or email me in between sessions if you’re dealing with something urgent, which can’t wait until the next session. One quick conversation can help you to be powerful and get ‘unstuck’.