My Wedding As The Second Wife

We had our wedding in the Czech Republic when I’m originally from. So you can imagine that my husband didn't do much planning or helping. It was all up to me and my mum, but it was my price to pay for having the wedding in my home town with my grandfathers.  On top of...

Where I went wrong as a new step mum

As a step mum, you can struggle even if you’re not going thought crazy drama you hear or read about. It takes time to wrap your head around so many things, find your ‘place’ and find a good balance.   Here are 5 things where I went wrong (and wish I didn’t)     ...

Am I the right person to be a step-mum?

  Are you dating a single dad or thinking about it and asking yourself if you are the right person to be a step-mum? I don’t have yes or no answer for you, but there are my very brief thoughts 1. If you don’t have kids your own, going from zero kids to even one...

Three things I wish I told him earlier

  Let’s just jump into it! Here are three things I wish I told him earlier   I don’t know if I love your daughter I still remember his face when I told him that I’m not sure if I love his daughter. This may sound horrible but at the beginning I didn’t love his...

What I want his ex-wife to know

  There’re things I told her, but don’t tell her often enough. Things I didn’t want to admit, or I’m scared to say. There are things she should know, and I want to tell her soon. I don’t hate you (I may did a little in past, but it had nothing to do with you). I...

How to have your ‘me’ time

Many people under-estimate the power of ‘me time’. When I was single, I had plenty of it and I was happy about it …most of the time. When I met my husband, I had to juggle work, living in London and traveling to Kent to see him. I didn’t have many days off to just be...

Single dad and discipline

I know my husband is not a single dad anymore, but it took us one year to move in together and I didn’t see his daughter very often. His daughter, then 4-years-old, used to walk all over him and he didn’t see it. It was driving me crazy. First, I didn’t want to say...