Coaching For Single Dads
Let’s face it; most newly single dads don’t have a clue where to start with their new single parent role and household and it’s understandable. Dealing with break-up, divorce or loss of your spouse is already challenging and it gets even more complicated when children are involved.
My coaching and approach is honest and direct. It’s perfect for someone looking for customised, one-on-one, solution-focused support. To give you the breakthroughs that you’re looking for, I won’t sugar coat your issues. I won’t try to ‘fix’ or change you because I believe that there’s nothing wrong with people, they might be lost, hurt or confused.
If you’re here, looking for a life coach you know your life is not exactly what you want to be like or what you expected to be.
You have two options:
A. Continue with your life as it is
B. Cut the crap and take control over your life!!!
Most common single dad’s struggles include:
- Fear of losing time with his child
- Believing that mothers always win, and people are on always on the mother’s sides
- New responsibilities
- Communication with the mother of the child/children
- Anger, broken heart, making each other wrong
- Fear of being a stand for yourself and your children vs Co-parenting
- Balancing carrier, new life, kids and new responsibilities
What we need to do:
- Do some digging in your past to get rid of stories that include ‘being a victim’.
- You’ll learn new communication skills and tools and learn how to apply them when you’re dealing with any challenging situation.
- Learn how to trust yourself and how to be a stand for yourself and your child.
- Create a respectful relationship with your kids
- Help you with your divorce process FIND OUT MORE HERE
How it works?
Book a free 30-minute consultation: We’ll explore the issues you would like to deal with or where do you need support. This consultation will give you a taste of what my coaching is like and if we’re a good fit.
Choose a package and receive a Pre-Session Questionnaire: you can choose between one, three- or six-week packages. In the questionnaire you’ll tell me exactly where you’d like to see change so I can tailor your first session.
Schedule the Skype or Face-to-Face session: we can meet in person if it’s possible, otherwise find a quiet place, get a cup of tea (box of tissues optional, but sometimes necessary).
Invite your partner: you can invite our partner for one session for no extra charge (packages for couples available or you can simply upgrade yours).
Support in between: you’re welcome to call or email me in between sessions if you’re dealing with something urgent, which can’t wait until the next session. One quick conversation can help you to be powerful and get ‘unstuck’.
Why a woman coach?
- You might not always find easy to talk to other guys about what you’re going through especially if you’re the only single dad.
- I’ll help you to understand when your ex is ‘coming from’ from a woman’s point of view. This doesn’t mean I’m taking her side!
- If you have a daughter some topics, question, issues might freak you out.
- As a stepmom and relationship coach I can either work with your new girlfriend or help you get ready for dating.
Something Extra I can help you with:
- Creating structures for discipline and respect
- Shopping and cooking plans for you and your child/children
- Fussy eaters (my background as a nutritionist)
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His divorce and I
When I met my husband, he was about to start divorce with his ex-wife after some time of separation. They have a child together, so his ex-wife won’t be going anywhere, she’s a part of our lives.
The beginning was very difficult for us, sometime I think the person who took the divorce the best was his daughter. At the beginning nobody wanted to talk to anyone, so they got a mediator. Lesson ONE never ever have a friend of yours as your mediator!
Every conversation went thought numerous emails and it took ages to get anything done. There were still a lot of upsets and anger. They were not making any progress. One day I literally lost it and yelled at my husband, telling him that he needed to start talking to her directly. And he did, he picked up the phone and called her, from that moment things started to shift. I coached my husband how to give up his upset and anger over the past, how to communicate and understand his ex-wife. Not they are able to talk to each other and co-parent.
It’s like peeling an onion, you need to take layer after layer. There is always a new issue popping up as life goes on plus their daughter is getting older (can’t wait for her to be a teenager Yeyyyy!).
We both had to be coached so we don’t create our relationship on the past. My main issue was that I’ll be the second wife and I can’t ever give him his first child. It’s possible to get divorced on good terms, limit your anger, move on and find love again. But you need to take responsibility for what you did or didn’t do, learn how to communicate and listen.
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